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I just finished reading Same Kind of Different As Me: A Modern-Day Slave, an International Art Dealer, and the Unlikely Woman Who Bound Them Together (affiliate link).   This is a powerful book.

This story illustrates how one man can make a difference.  But, it’s not the man you would suspect.  You would expect the different maker to be the wealthy art dealer, the man of means.  The hero in this book is not that guy.

In his own words, “There’s somethin’ I learned when I was homeless: Our limitation is God’s opportunity.”  God can take our brokenness and weakness to make a difference.  In fact, he seems to prefer to use broken people.  This book shows that God can use anyone to make a difference in the lives of others.  Ecclesiastes 9:15 puts it this way, “There was found in a certain city a poor man who was wise, and by his wisdom he saved the city.”  This book is about a poor man that makes a huge difference.

It’s also about learning to love others.  It’s about learning to love those that society rejects.  Society may not value those who seem down and out, but God does and he wants us to as well.  This story shows the difference reaching out and loving someone who is unloved can make.  It can change the destiny of not only that person, but the lives of so many more.

This is a great read for parents to read to their slighty older kids (their are some mature themes like racism, slavery, etc..), people who intersted in social justice and social change, or anybody who is interested in loving people more like Christ loves them.

This is a short book that I would encourage everybody to read at some point.  You can pick up a copy here in softcover from Amazon or here on Kindle.

Out Live Your Life [Book Review]

Does Jesus still do it?  Doe he still use ordinary people, like us, to change the world?  The answer to that question, is found in Max Lucado’s Outlive Your Life: You Were Made to Make a Difference, and the answer is yes.  Working through the book of Acts, Max lays out how God uses regular everyday people to make a big difference in our world.

And our world needs someone to make a big difference.  Max writes,

These are devastating times: 1.75 billion people are desperately poor, 1 billion are hungry, millions are trafficked in slavery, and pandemic diseases are gouging entire nations.  Each year nearly 2 million children are exploited in the global sex trade.  And in the five minutes it took you to read these pages, almost ninety children died of preventable diseases.  More than half of all Africans do not have access to modern health facilities.  As a result, 10 million of them die each year from diarrhea, acute respiratory illness, malaria, and measles.  Many of those deaths could be prevented by one shot.

Sobering.  Our world is in great need.  Again, our world needs someone to make a big difference.  The lesson learned from Outlive Your Life is that God wants to use average people, like you and me, to make a dent in these problems.  The question is, will we let him use us?

If your looking for a great read that will challenge you to do more with your life, I would recommend this book.  If you’re interested in picking up a copy you can buy it here from Christian Book Distributors, or here from Amazon.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”

Recent Reading

Fairly often I get asked what I am reading.  Here are a few books I just finished, or currently have down off the shelf…

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Look Unto Me: The Devotions of Charles SpurgeonFor $5 this book is a steal.  I have been reading this book devotionally on-and-off for some time now, and the days I do read it I am always challenged.

The Hole In Our Gospel by Richard Stearns – Our church takes the month of October to focus on missions, so my Home Care Group decided to work through The Hole In Our Gospel by World Vision’s Richard Stearns.  Some of the group may have just participated in watching the DVDs.  Those, however,  who took the time to read the book as well were additionally challenged to do more to fight against world hunger, lack of clean water, education, shelter, medication, and for billions of people around the world a lack of an adequate presentation of the gospel.

Think Orange by Reggie Joiner - I have slowly been reading through this book by Reggie on family ministry.  We just started using Orange Curriculum in our main children’s services at Calvary this past week so I thought I would read through the book as well.   This book is a must read for any pastor, but especially for children or youth pastors.  It discusses engaging parents in what is going on at church with their kids, recruiting mentors to work with families, provoking kids and parents to work on their relationship, and a whole lot more.

The Accidental Billionaires: The Founding of Facebook by Ben Mezrich - This is a bit of guilty pleasure reading for me.  It’s my nerd side coming out.  I just love finding out how successful companies, organizations and people got started…. especially when it involves computers.  :)

No Perfect People Allowed: Creating a Come-as-you-are Culture in the Church by John Burke - As a pastor I always try to be reading something on the church.  This book is a great read to get you thinking about what we could do as a church to be more inviting to those in a post-Christian culture.

Primal by Mark Batterson – I’ll probably say more about this book in a later post, but this book is a great for anyone who is looking for more depth in their relationship with God.  Primal is about getting back to an authentic Christian faith.

Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln by Doris Kearns Goodwin – I honestly haven’t picked this book up in a while.  But I love reading history.

Spoken from the Heart by Laura Bush – Just like history, biography isn’t something I read real consistently, so this auto-biography by Laura Bush has been on my shelf (actually my kindle) for a while, but I am slowly getting through it.

Well, that’s what I have been reading?  Any recommendations on what I should read next?

Into the Wild – A Glimpse At More Authentic Christianity?

“In April 1992 a young man from a well-to-do family hitchhiked to Alaska and walked alone into the wilderness north of Mt. McKinley.  His name was Christopher Johnson McCandless.  He had given $25,000 in savings to charity, abandoned his car and most of his possessions, burned all the cash in his wallet, and invented a new life for himself.  Four months later, his decomposed body was found by a moose hunter.”

Into the Wild

Those words, found on the cover of Into the Wild by Jon Krakauer, caught my attention.  And, after reading the first full chapter of the book, I was hooked.  I found myself wondering what would cause this kid to walk away from a promising future.  From a family.  From everything, and walk into an abandoned wilderness that would ultimately end up claiming his life.

One letter penned from McCandless to a friend he had made on his journey sheds light into why he made this decision.  McCandless encourages his friend to adopt a similar lifestyle to himself when he writes, “I think you really should make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been to hesitant to attempt.  So many people live with unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventourous spirit within a man than a secure future.  The very basic core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure.  The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.  If you want to get more out of life, Ron, you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter syle of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy.  But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty.”

To be clear after reading the whole book I think there were some flaws to McCandless logic and approach to life, but he was on to something….dare I say, something Biblical.

I am not certain of where McCandless fell in his religious convictions.  Honestly, his adventure to the Alaskan wilderness was probably more a flight from family problems, and disgust with the world, than it was anything else.  Yet, something about this young man’s words seem to ring true with how Christians should approach their world.

“You really should make a radical change in your lifestyle.” Many Christians never change their lifestyle.  After coming to Christ they do the same things, hang out with the same people, engage in the same sins.  The only thing that might change is their location on a Sunday morning.  But Christ hasn’t called us to leave things the same, He has called us to follow Him.  His words to his followers were to leave their pillow, their family, and even their dead behind to bury their own dead.

“Begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been to hesitant to attempt.” Christianity isn’t just about stopping.  It is not all about not smoking, drinking, sleeping around…it is also about doing.  Doing things you would have never dreamed of doing before.  Its about going and serving on a missions trip in the jungles of Peru, or the city of Bucharest.  It’s about not hoarding for yourself, but giving away to meet the physical and spiritual needs of people.  It’s about sharing your time to work with kids on a Sunday rather than watching the football game.  Following Christ is about doing things.   Yet many never really follow Christ, they only sit on a pew in His church.

“So many people live with unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventourous spirit within a man than a secure future.” Christianity is not about safety.  It is not about getting what you want, or living out the American Dream.  It is about laying your life down for the cause of Christ, and risking it all for Him.  It is about surrender.  It is about sacrifice.

“If you want to get more out of life…you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter syle of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy.  But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty.” When you are living an authentic Christian life is will first appear crazy to you, and to those around you.  It will seem crazy to give 10%+ your income to your church.  It will seem crazy to give up vacation time to go serve on a missions trip.  It will seem nuts to your neighbors to get up early on a Sunday to go to church.  It will seem ludicrous to give up a weekend on the boat, to spend time serving the needy in the community.  It will seem insane to sell the boat to meet the needs of those in the community.  At first it will seem crazy, but in the end you will see the beauty of living fully for Christ.

What does your life look like?  Is it a safe and secure Christian life?  Or, are you risking everything for the cause of Christ?  Like McCandless discovered, life isn’t meant to be lived safely.  To live life to the full you have to risk it for Him.

The Right to Lead

At first glance it seems like a good book for a graduation gift, or great coffee table decor, but when you open The Right to Lead you find that it is much more.  In this short book John Maxwell retells great stories of sacrifice and risk, shares poignant quotes regarding vision and integrity, and speaks to the necessity of action, determination, and service on the part of every leader.

A few of my favorite quotes from the book…

You will never do anything in this world without courage.  - James Allen

We set young leaders up for a fall if we encourage them to envision what they can do before they consider the kind of person they should be.  - R. Ruth Barton

Being the first to cross the finish line makes you a winner in only phase of life.  It’s what you do after you cross the line that really counts.  - Ralph Boston, Olympic Gold Medalist

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stand at times of challenge.  - Martin Luther King Jr.

The harder you work, the harder it is to surrender.  - Vince Lombardi

True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic.  It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever the cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.  - Arthur Ashe

There are dozens of other great quotes in this short book.  If your looking for a short, easy read on leadership this is a great book to pick up.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”

Where is God?

Hope.  Not everyone has it, but that is why this book is so important.  Dr. Townsend’s main goal in writing Where is God? is that people would walk away with an “increased sense of hope”, and if you read this book you will.

Although the question of “if God is real, why is this happening to me?” has been asked by millions of people, it is a question we still struggle to answer.  In Where is God? a clear Biblical response to this question is given.  Anyone who is going through a difficult time, or is counseling someone going through a difficult time, would find this book to be a valuable resource.

Pastors especially will find this book helpful.  I discovered some new ideas for counseling, and illustrations for preaching while reading the book.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com <http://BookSneeze.com> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”

Linchpin

I just finished reading Linchpin by Seth Godin.  To say I found the book a great read would be an understatement.  In fact, I would say this is one of the most important books I read in quite a while.  I would recommend this book to anyone.

In the book Seth challenges you to give up living an ordinary, mundane life and become someone who is remarkable.  He challenges you to be extraordinary, which results in you becoming indispensable…a linchpin.

One quick thought from the book as a tease…

“Would your organization be more successful if your employees were more obedient?  Or consider for a second: would you be more successful if your employees artistic, motivated, connected, aware, passionate and genuine?  You can’t have both of course.”

You can have people who follow the rules precisely and do exactly what is asked of them, or you can have people with passion and energy.  People who don’t just appease the status quo, but who wants to take the organization beyond where it is at now.

Again, I would recommend the book to anyone.  You can pick up a copy at Amazon.

Appendix 5

I just finished reading Jim Collins’ new book How the Mighty Fall and it was a great read.  There were lots of excellent points in the book, but weirdly the part I loved the most was the fifth appendix.  In the 5th appendix Collin’s discusses how to pick the right people for your team. He comes up with six characteristics.  In his words, pared down a bit…

1. The right people fit the company’s core values. People often ask, ‘How do we get people to share our core values?’  The answer: you don’t.  You hire people who already have a predisposition to your core values, and hang on to them.

2. The right people don’t need to be tightly managed. The moment you feel the need to tightly manage someone, you might have made a hiring mistake.

3. The right people understand that they do not have “jobs”; they have responsibilities. The right people can complete the statement, “I am the only person ultimately responsible for…”

4. The right people fulfill their commitments. In a culture of discipline, people view commitments as sacred-they do what they say, without complaint.

5. The right people are passionate about the company and its work. Nothing happens without passion, and the right people display remarkable intensity.

6. The right people display “window and mirror” maturity. When things go well, the right people point out the window, giving credit to factors other than themselves…yet when things go awry…they point in the mirror and say, “I’m responsible.”

For any team to be successful, you have to have the right people on the bus.  These are six great characteristics to look for when hiring, or looking for volunteers.

Eat That Frog! – A Book Review

I actually finished reading Eat That Frog! a while back, but am just getting around to posting some thoughts.  As someone who often feels there is more to to than I can possibly get done I thought I would pick up this book on time management, as it came recommended by a friend.  Their recommendation was a good one, as the book did not disappoint.  I would recommend getting this book.  It will help you manage your time better.  Promise.  Here are few highlights from the book.

The first rule of frog eating is this: If you have to eat
two frogs, eat the ugliest one first.
This is another way of saying that if you have two important tasks
before you, start with the biggest, hardest, and most important task first (2).

The second rule of frog eating is this: If you have to eat a
frog at all, it doesn’t pay to sit and look at it for very long. The key to reaching high levels of
performance and productivity is to develop the lifelong habit of tackling your
major task first thing each morning (3).

“Failure to execute” is one of the biggest problems in
organizations today. Many people confuse
activity with accomplishment. The talk
continually, hold endless meetings, and make wonderful plans, but the final
analysis, not one does the job and get the results required” (3-4).

There is one quality that one must possess to win, and that
is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants and a burning
desire to achieve it. Quoting Napoleon
Hill on page 9.

Here is a great rule for success: Think on paper. Only about 3 percent of adults have clear,
written goals. These people accomplish
five and ten times as much as people of equal of better education and ability
but who, for whatever reason, have never taken the time to write out exactly
what they want (10).

One of the very worst uses of time is to do something very
well that need not be done at all (10).

Before you begin scrambling up the ladder of success, make
sure that it is leaning against the right building.” Quoting Stephen Covey on page 10.

Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you
can do something about it now. Quoting
Alan Lakein on page 14.

The good news is that every minute spent planning saves as
many as ten minutes in execution. It
takes only about 10 to 12 minutes for you to plan out your day, but this small
investment of time will save you up to two hours (100 to 120 minutes) in wasted
time and diffused effort throughout the day (15).

We always have time enough, if we will but use it aright. Quoting Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe on page
20.

Rule: Resist the temptation to clear up small things first
(22).

Rule: Long-term thinking improves short-term decision making
(26).

The law of Forced Efficiency says that “There is never
enough time to do everything, but there is always enough time to do the most
important thing” (28).

Rule: There will never be enough time to do everything you
have to do.

Rule: You can get your time and your life under control only
to the degree to which you discontinue lower-value activities (34).

“Why am I on the payroll?”
This is one of the most important questions you can ever ask and answer,
over and over again, throughout your career (41).

Rule: You weakest key results area sets the height at which
you can use all your other skills and abilities (44).

What one skill, if I developed and did it in an excellent
fashion, would have the greatest positive impact on my career? (45).

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. Quoting Theodore Roosevelt on page 47.

You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take. Quoting Wayne Getzky on page 58.

Persons with comparatively moderate powers will accomplish
much, if they apply themselves wholly and indefatigably to on thing at a
time. Quoting Samuel Smiles on page 60.

There is an old saying that “by the yard it’s hard; but inch
by inch, anything’s a cinch!” (60).

A journey of a thousand leagues begins with a single
step. Quoting Lao-tzu on page 60.

The only certain means of success is to render more and better
service than is expected of you, no matter what your task may be. Quoting Og Madino on page 63.

Anytime you stop striving to get better, you’re bound to get
worse. Quoting Pat Riley on page 63.

Rule: Continuous
learning is the minimum requirement for success in any field (64).

Concentrate all your thoughts on the task at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought into
a focus. Quoting Alexander Graham Bell
on page 70.

Only about 2 percent of the people can work entirely without
supervision. We call these people
“leaders.” This is the kind of person
you are meant to be and that you can be, if you decide to be (76).

Imagine each day that you have just received an emergency
message and that you will have to leave town tomorrow for a month. If you had to leave town for a month, what
you make absolutely sure that you got done before you left? (77).

The fact is that your productivity begins to decline after
eight or nine hours of work. For this
reason, working long hours into the night, although sometimes necessary means
that you are usually producing less and less in more and more time (80-81).

There is more to life than just increasing its speed. Quoting Gandhi on page 89.

The beginning of a habit is like an invisible thread, but
every time we repeat the act we strengthen the strand, add to it another
filament, until it becomes a great cable and binds us irrevocably, thought and
act. Quoting Orison Swett Marden on page
97.

It has been estimated that the tendency to start and stop a
task – to pick it up, put it down, and come back to it- can increase the time
necessary to complete the task by as much as 500 percent (110).

Not For Sale

It is not an easy book to read.

I just finished Not For Sale by David Batstone, which documents perhaps the greatest moral crisis of our day…human slavery.  To me it is unthinkable that human trafficking worldwide generates $31 billion annually and currently enslaves over 27 million people, half of them under the age of 18, but it does.

Again, it is not an easy book to read, as the stories of those who have been exploited will break your heart, but Batstone weaves their stories with stories of people across the globe who are fighting to end human slavery.  These encouraging stories share how people are fighting to make a difference in places like Cambodia, Thailand, Uganda, Europe, Peru and even right here in the United States. This book forced me to look for ways I can make a difference in fighting this global problem from where I am at, right here just North of Boston.

I would encourage everyone to read this book.

Also, it is not an organization mentioned in the book, but you should check out The A21 Campaign (http://www.thea21campaign.org/).  They are doing some pretty amazing work to combat human trafficking.

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