Churches should be the safest place on earth.Â Churches, however, are full of imperfect people; and where there are imperfect people, things are often not as they should be.Â Â The result is that churches have to be extra diligent, and work hard, to be safe.Â One, often overlooked, area that churches need to focus on is bullying, harassment, and discrimination.
Recently, I conducted a training with our church staff.Â Here is what we covered:
If you work at a church, or just about anywhere, you probably send and receive a lot of email.Â You’ve no doubt received some poorly written emails and likely have even sent a few yourself.Â Recently, I gave our church staff some suggestions for writing better email:
1. Send it â€œToâ€ the correct people, that is who needs to receive the information and do something with it. We recommend filling in who you are sending the email to last, as it saves you from inadvertently sending the email before you are done.
Churches should be the safest place on earth. There are many things requiredÂ to make this a reality, one of which is the screening of all volunteers. Unfortunately, not every church does their job. In fact, I recently spoke with a church that hadnâ€™t even been doing basic background checks on their children and youth workers. That is a huge liability for the church. More egregious, it leaves people vulnerable and their trust misplaced.
Â There are a few steps that a church can take to ensure a safe place for everyone to worship. Â Here is what my church currently requires for everyone serving in ministry…
My health was precarious. Â At 32, the doctor was summoning me to her office for diabetes tests. Â I never exercised. Â My diet was poor. Â Actually, poor is an understatement. Â On average, I drank sixty ounces of Mountain Dew per day and ate Taco Bell at least two or three times a week. Â Abysmal might be a more apt description. Â My diet led me into head-to-head combatÂ with kidney stones. Â The kidney stones won with a knockout, and I would prefer to never fight a rematch.
Determined to shed some weight and get in better shape, I started running. Â Well, my first attempt was probably more like a fifty-yard shuffle than it was a run. Â I am pretty sure I made it about one block and about passed out. Â I was out of breath. Â My sides were on fire. Â I just turned around and walked home, defeated.
A lot of work goes into preaching. Â Most pastors spend between 10 and 18 hours a week working on their sermons, with many spending more than 20 or even 30 hours. Â With all that work going into preparing a sermon, it can be a bit disheartening to know that most people forget most of what they hear within days, if not hours.
Recently I was challenged to think more critically about my preaching, specifically when it comes to application. Â Often when we preach, the application of that preaching is for use in the church, or in our private Christian lives. Â It may be how to serve in ministry, how to pray, read our Bibles, or live out any other number of Christian disciplines. Â There is certainly nothing wrong with sermons that teach us how do any of this, as they are a part of Christian life and growing in these areas is drastically needed. Â We need to preach sermons that cover these topics. Â However, effective preaching, preaching that sticks with people, should cover far more ground.
On a muggyÂ night in September of 1751, a six story tenement in Edinburgh, Scotland, collapsed. Â What should have shocked many, shocked no one, as this was just one building among manyÂ made of rickety old boards. Â The likelihood of a building failing in Edinburgh was about as likely as rain on a cloudy day. Â Yet, people lived in them as thereÂ was no space forÂ new neighborhoods to be built. Â The Nor’ Loch bordered the city to the north. Â The lake had been made for defense, which it kindly provided, but it was neglected and was now only stocked withÂ sewage. Â When the people managed to dodge falling buildings and sewage filled waters, it wasÂ the fires, disease, and crime that caught them off guard. Â Edinburgh was a ghetto, and it needed help.
However, help would not come. Â Scotland hadn’t held royal court since 1603. Â Help from their federal government was about as likely as suddenly finding cell service when your car has broken down on a deserted mountain highway.Â Â People would also not get any assistanceÂ from their local city government. Â The city which hadÂ limited resources, was also led by a buffoonary of men. Â They often heldÂ their meetings in taverns, acting more like drunken frat boys than officialsÂ running a city. Â The possibility of the citizens of Edinburgh receiving help from anyone inÂ government seemed bleak.
Many people love to share their experiences. Â They leave a review on Yelp sharing whether they would recommend a restaurant, or not, and why. Â They read a good book, and then go to work the next day and recommend it to a half dozen people. They post on Facebook about the latest home remedy they just tried and now swear by. Â They may overhear that someone needs a dentistÂ and they are quick to recommend theirs in a heartbeat. Â Millions of people share their experiences, and reviews of those experiences, every day.
Although reviews come quickly for restaurants, vacation destinations, and good deals on getting a used car, when it comes to sharing about the most important recommendation we can ever give, our faith, many remain conspicuously quiet. Â If we found the perfect restaurant, that served the most delicious food, and was unbelievably cheap, we would recommend it to every person we knew. Â In fact, we would probably go into work the next day and literally rave about the spectacularÂ service and fantastic Banoffee Pie. Â However, for those who believe and follow Christ, who have received the free gift of eternal life, who have literally had their life changed, and who have experienced something far greaterÂ than getting great meal at a great price, we rarely share about our experience.
There are not many seminars in New England geared towards helping pastors and church leaders grow their churches. This June, however, there is one conference designed to do just that. Â The New England Pastors Initiative is hosting it’s second annual conference, featuring guest speaker Dick Hardy. Â Dick is the founder of The Hardy Group (thehardygroup.org), an organization devoted to helping pastors navigate church growth challenges and remove obstacles to that growth.
This one day local conference, on Tuesday, June 13th, Â is designed to helpÂ pastors and churchÂ leaders create fresh momentum and energy in their ministries, promote and market theirÂ churches better within theirÂ communities, and so much more! Â In order to make the conference as accessible as possible, the cost is only $30, which includes a catered lunch.
If you are a pastor or church leader in New England you do not want to miss out on this special day! Â To register, or find out more information, simply go toÂ nepastorsinitiative.org.
Every pastor I know wants to make an impact. Â They want their churches to grow and to make a difference in their communities. Â Many pastors, however, attempt to make an impact the wrong way.
Too many pastors go for the quick kill. Â They are looking for the one big event that will reach their community and bring hundreds, if not thousands, of people to their church. Â They start a new ministry hoping that it will immediately touch a felt need around themÂ and reach a throng of new people. Â They are looking for aÂ silver bullet, one that kills quickly all in one shot.