The First Four Lessons I Learned in Pastoral Ministry

I made an offhanded remark yesterday that the fourth lesson I learned in pastoral ministry is that you should always have a backup plan.  It took me about 1 week to learn that lesson.  After a single Sunday running Kid's church and I quickly realized that there will always be something that doesn't turn out the way you anticipated it would.  Could be a game you thought would be great, but that the kids think is lame.  Could be an object lesson that works great the 6 times you practice it, but fails miserably when it comes service time.  Could be a million other things. So a quick lesson learned…always have a plan B.

Well, my off handed remark about having a backup plan being the fourth lesson I learned prompted someone to ask, "what were the first three lessons you learned?"  Here is the answer to that question…

1. Always Have a Great Mentor.  Allow me to tell a story.  I will never forget the first emergency call I took as an associate pastor at Calvary.  A lady in the church had a stroke and so I went to the hospital to pray with her, and introduce myself to her family since they didn't come to the church.  When I arrived at the hospital her condition was much more serious than I was expecting.  I walked into the waiting room and up to the family, and before they even gave me their names, they said this, "Our mom's stroke was massive.  The doctors are asking if we want to remove life support.  You're her pastor, according to my mom's religious beliefs would she want us to take her off life support?"  Now before you judge my response, please remember this was literally my 3rd day on the job…but my answer seriously went something like, "Uhhh…..well……ummm…..err…..yeah, about that….hang on, let me step out in the hall and call Pastor Tim.   I am sure he would want to know how serious your mother's condition is, and I am sure that he would be able to answer that question for you!"  

Pastor Tim did come, and he did have a great way of framing a response to their question about whether to take their mother off life support.  The response that I listened to him give that day is the exact same response I have used a few times since, and will probably be the same response I use the rest of my life.  Lesson #1 Have A Great Mentor.

2. You Must Be a Reader of God's Word.  It's tough to get far in pastoral ministry if you are not reading God's Word.  And you can't read it just looking for your next sermon.  It needs to be read devotionally, not just professionally .  Many have tried to get by without this, and many have failed.

3. You Must Be a Reader of Books.  You can expand books to include magazines, journals, blogs, even listening to Podcasts.  The bottom line is that you have to always be exposing yourself to new ideas.  I know for me at least, it is easy to get stuck in a rut, especially if that rut seems to be going more, or less, the right direction.  It is good to get out of the rut every once in a while and blaze a whole new trail.  New ideas from others help get the creative juices going.

10 Things I Love About Peru

I shared these today at Calvary, but I thought I would post them here for posterity sake.  In reflecting on my time in Peru this summer, there are several lessons I learned and several aspects of the Peruvian culture that I fell in love with.  Here are 10 of them…

10. The Schedule. Every day we awoke to a rooster crow, usually around 3:00 am, which a touch earlier than what I am used to getting up, but I loved rolling out of my hammock around 4:00 or 5:00 and heading to work.  Generally we worked from 6:00, or so, in the morning till 2:00 or 3:00 in the afternoon.  Then we had our afternoons off to go swimming, hang out with the villagers and build community, or just take a nice siesta nap until the evening service.

9. Pastor’s Who are Hungry for God. We worked with two pastors along the Itaya river who were just as passionate about reaching their villages for Christ as the pastors at Calvary are about reaching our community.

8. Kid’s Can Use the Restroom on the Church Floor and No One Cares. It didn’t matter if it was a kid who couldn’t behave quite right, an old man who smelled a little odd, or if it was someone who was just a little “different”, people were just glad that others were able to be at church….even if they make a little mess on the floor.

7. I Learned I Can Live with a Lot Less. I realized that I really don’t need my iPhone, my computer, or even that new Kindle I really want.  The people of Peru live without running water, electricity, and a whole lot less than what I have.

6. No Need to Go to Gym, Because Just Getting Through the Day is a Workout. Just getting from point “A” to point “B” requires expending a ton of energy…and sweat.

5. The “Downtown Square” of Every Village is a Soccer Field. Enough said.

4. The people of Peru are Very Family Focused. It didn’t matter if they were cooking dinner, eating breakfast, going to work, going to church, or just hanging, out the people of Peru do everything as a family.

3. Everyone has a Place of Ministry in the Church…Including Kids. I love being a part of a church that values kids, and it was great to see that same value in Peru as well.  The kids were a part of the church services, especially when it came to the music.

2. Hospitality on a Completely Different Level. When the people of the second village we visited found out we were coming they actually built bridges to make our 2 or 3 day stay easier.  They don’t use bridges.  They just walk down the hill, through the creek, and up the other side.  But they didn’t want us to have to do that, so they actually went through the trouble of building us bridges to use.  Just one example of their amazing hospitality.

1. There are No McDonalds…so I Lost 11 Pounds! We worked so hard that sometimes I didn’t really even feel like eating, but when I did eat it certainly wasn’t McDonald’s.  Fish and rice made up the majority of our afternoon meals.

Beyond the Soiled Curtain

I have been on a pretty good reading kick lately.  Just finished the book, Beyond the Soiled Curtain by David and Beth Grant.  This book provides a glimpse of Falkland Road in Bombay, and reveals the atrocity of human trafficking and what organizations like Project Rescue (http://www.projectrescue.com/) are doing to combat it.

A few stats from the book regarding those sold into the sex-slave industry….

– Some are sold into a life of prostitution by their families for as little as $150.

– The average age of someone sold into prostitution is 13.

– 1 million children each year are exploited in the global commercial sex trade.

– 50% of all trafficking victims worldwide are children.

– 2.3 million girls and women work as prostitutes and madams in India alone.

– 400 million in revenue is generated each year by Bombay’s red light district.

I could go on, but I won’t.  I encourage you to check out the book.  It is an easy read in the sense that it is not dense reading, but in the sense you will come face-to-face with the ugly side of the world we live in, it is a very difficult book to take in.

On a related note, I was also introduced to another organization combating human trafficking, focusing on those in Greece.  You can check them out at http://www.thea21campaign.org/.

Would You Be Happy in Heaven If Christ Were Not There

I normally don’t just reprint quotes, but this one by John Piper from God is the Gospel is so good I couldn’t resist….

John writes, “The critical question for our generation-and for every generation-is this: If you could have heaven, with no sickness, and with all the friends you ever had on earth, and all the food you ever liked, and all the leisure activities you ever enjoyed, and all the natural beauties you ever saw, all the physical pleasures you ever tasted, and no human conflict or any natural disasters, could you be satisfied with heaven, if Christ were not there?”

I’ll admit I paused to think about this question….and I have my answer….no.  But what does it say about someone’s relationship with Christ if they answer “yes” to this question?

I Just Realized How Out of Shape I Am

Until you run around a soccer field with kids for a few hours, it is easy to forget how out of shape you actually are.  This week during our church’s Mega Sports Camp, I realized that I am very much out of shape.

This year was our best year yet at Mega Sports Camp yet.  We introduced baseball for the first time, and we also had our traditional basketball, soccer, archery and sports swords for the kids to participate in.  I think all the kids had a great time, and I know for sure I did.  A few things I love about sports camp….

1. It gives me the chance to get to know some kids I haven’t met before from Calvary, and the community.

2. It is a great event for kids to invite their friends to, as almost everyone loves sports.

3. It is a great mix of having fun with sports, and having fun during the coaches huddle times (devotional times).

4. It get’s me out of my office and staff meetings for the week 🙂

In fact, I love sports camps so much that we are probably going to be offering some more soon.  So keep an eye out for some upcoming sports clinics.  We will probably be offering archery again in the fall, and then baseball in the spring.

Peru – There and Back Again

What a week.  Most missions trips expose you to another culture, a language other than English, perhaps some different kinds of food, but my time in Peru exposed me to a a completely different way of life.

I traveled with 15 people from Calvary 6 hours up the Itaya River into the jungle outside of Iquitos, Peru.  There we visited two villages, both having less that 100 people in them.  No electricity (except by generator), and no running water.  We slept in hammocks, ate fish (head attached) that we caught out of the river, traveled by boat, bathed in the river, purified our own water, and used machetes as construction tools to build 2 churches.

I am sure I will write more on my experiences in Peru later, but for now let me just show you the 2 churches we built.  We intentionally left the front of the buildings open so that the people of the village could finish the church themselves.  Hopefully this will give them a sense of ownership having completed the last bit of work without our help.

Summer Camp

An amazing week.  Kid’s camp is full of all sorts of fun….canoeing, swimming, field games, rock climbing, team competitions, and so much more.  My favorite part of camp though is the kids.

It is always great to see kids be able to get away from their regular environment for a week and focus on God.  In many cases they leave their less than desirable home situation behind, they leave their regular friends behind, they leave their TV’s and Wii’s behind and just get the chance to spend a week with God.

This year we 15 go with us from Calvary, and I think that every single one of them had an awesome week.  It was great to see so many of our kids around the altars each evening, praying for the various circumstances in their lives, and praying for their own relationships with God.  I know for certain that many of our kids were touched this week, and I pray, had their life courses altered for the better.

For those of you who are interested in seeing some of the footage from our time at camp, just search YouTube for “SNED Kids Camp 2009.”

My Favorite Piece of Mail

I know I may be in the minority, but I am one of those people who actually likes getting mail.  I look forward to opening the mail to see if I got a card, a letter, or to simply read what is in the newspaper.  I even like getting bills, so I can pay them right away…alright now I know I am in the minority.

But of all the mail I get, my favorite piece of mail Becky, Jack and I receive is from our sponsored child in Rwanda.  A few times each year we receive a letter letting us know what is going on in the life of our sponsored daughter Uwineza Claudine.

Some of her letters make me smile, some make me cry.  Here is the letter we received today…it was one that made me cry.  The last letter she sent us crossed with one we sent her in the mail, so this one is actually responding to some questions we had about Christmas, winter, and snow in Rwanda.  Claudine wrote it, but a translator translated it, and when they did they switched to the third person.

Your child Uwineza Claudine greets you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Claudine has been sick and hospitalized for 2 months now, she was operated in the stomach so she didn’t study last term.  She is still in the hospital but she is recovering.  Her family is fine and taking care of her.  Claudine and her family are happy for the card you sent her.  Your child and her family celebrate Christmas every year on th 25th of December.  Claudine says that she knows snow [we asked her if it snows in Rwanda].  She likes going to Sunday School.  Lastly, she wishes you God’s blessings.  Read: Isaiah 54:4-8

One of our family core values is generosity, another is love.  One of the ways we live those two values out is through sponsoring Claudine.  It is not much, but the support we provide her gives her a better opportunity to go to school, have adequate clothes, food and water, and so much more.

Creation – A Nice Change of Pace

Some of you have been asking about my time away this past week to Creation Northeast.  Let me just say it was a nice change of pace.  One of things I enjoy most about getting away is that I am able to spend some time just thinking.  Usually that means I come back with new ideas, and a long to do list, but it is nice to spend time thinking more long term.

I had the chance to hear some great bands like Third Day, David Crowder and others while I was there.  Also, each evening there was also a guest speaker.  Here is a picture I took with my phone on the night Joyce Meyer spoke.  I believe there were approximately 75,000 people there that evening.

The hands down best part of the week though was that I got to spend some extra time with my family and some great friends.

A Busy Summer

I am excited for summer.  Honestly, I believe this may be the best summer I have in quite some time.  But it is going to be busy.  For the few who may be interested in Becky's, Jack's and my travel plans….

This Sunday Becky, Jack and I leave for Creation Festival East.  We will be spending some time with some friends from the church, and enjoying some nice music in Pennsylvania for the week.  For this we be gone June 21st – 29th.

Then Becky and Jack fly back to Missouri on June 30th.  Becky is looking forward to seeing her family, especially her cousin Heather, who just had a baby girl.  She is also going to get to throw a baby shower for her sister Sarah.

From July 6th-10th I will be at SNED Kid's Camp in Rumney, New Hampshire. 

Jack's Birthday is July 17th…already getting ready for the 2nd Birthday Bash!  Details forthcoming.

Then I leave for a missions trip to Iquitos, Peru, on July 18th and will not be back until July 27th.

Then from August 2nd (which is Becky's Birthday) to August 8th, Becky, Jack and I will be in Florida attending the Assemblies of God General Council.  We will probably hit up Disney while we are there as well.

And then to cap off the summer we have Mega Sports Camp at the church from August 10th to the 14th.

After all the business of this summer, I think I may need a vacation 🙂