Good Problems

Not every problem is a bad problem.  Sometimes, if not most of the time, when things are going well new challenges and problems arise that need to be addressed.  If those problems are addressed, and avenues are created to move beyond them, then continued growth and progress occurs.  If the problems go unaddressed then stagnation happens.

This is why I think Calvary is in such a wonderful spot, as we have all sorts of these good problems.  We have continued to reach new people, which means more people are coming to church.  This in turn has created a situation where our parking lot doesn’t have enough room, our sanctuary is often full (or at least as full as you can get people to squeeze in), our children’s classrooms are too small for the number of kids coming out, and 404 people involved in ministry is not enough to cover all the ministry bases at the church.  What wonderful problems to have!

These next few months are going to be some great months for our church, and I truly believe that 2009 is going to be a pivotal year in the history of our church.  I am looking forward to seeing the creative solutions we come up with to tackle these problems…and to the new levels of growth we will see once we overcome them.

A Third Place

“We’re in the business of human connection and humanity, creating communities in a third place between home and work.”  – Starbucks CEO Howard Schultz

Starbucks recognizes the value of creating community and creating environments where people feel comfortable.  They believe in these things so much that they are willing to structure the way that they do business around fostering them.  They want to be the place where people come to talk, to meet up with friends, and just to hang out.  They want to be a place where people stop in to read, flip through a magazine, or just kill some time.  They want their shops to be people’s third place…the place they go when they are not at home, or at work.

I wonder how we make the church a “third place”, or even more to the point do most churches even want to be third places?  Sometimes I wonder how comfortable we would be if people just came to the church to hang out, even when there is no official church function going on.  I know you have to take into account the need for the church to provide adequate supervision when youth and kids or on church property, but would we even be open to youth stopping by to play pool or ping pong in the church basement.  I don’t know that some churches would be.

Most churches, I believe, would say that they value community, but I also think that most churches want that community to develop during their structured programs….during their planned Home Care Groups…during their “official” times to just hang out at the church.

I wonder what would happen if we were to be more deliberate in creating pockets of opportunity for people to come and spend time at the church.  I know for me growing up church was a third place.  As soon as I left school, rather than going home I went straight to the church to see my youth pastor.  Whatever he was doing on that day…that is what I was going.  We stuffed letters together, setup chairs together, went on visitation together, and a whole lot more.  I honestly don’t think I am overstating it when I say, were it not for those times I would not be where I am today.  The time I spent with my youth pastor had a lasting effect on my walk with Christ.  Without the lessons I learned from him, I don’t know that I would have made it through high school, and I am quite certain I would not have made it through my freshmen year of college.

I wonder how many opportunies we are missing to create community, and to mentor people, just because we are not really open to being a third place?

A Great Day

Monday is always a great day for me.  Typically I have the chance to spend the entire day with Jack, and that makes it a fun day no matter what we are doing.  Today we had the chance to go to a new park, where Jack got the chance to climb through the mouth of giant plastic hippo, take a ride on the swings and slides, and more.  Then we hit up Starbucks…coffee for dad, cookie and juice for Jack.  Then we swung by Barnes and Noble to look for a book to help Jack with his letters and also to play with the toy train set they have.  Right before I put Jack down for his nap a bit ago, he decided he wanted some Cheerios!  Although I wasn’t too excited he decided to drop them all on the kitchen floor, I was glad to have his “help” cleaning them up.

Core Values

Much of what I write comes from what I have read. In fact, pretty much
all of it does. I am not that creative of a person, and when it comes
down to it most of the good ideas I have I have taken from someone
else. So, if you ever think I have a great idea you should just look
for the footnote.

But being a fairly uncreative person keeps
me looking for good ideas all around me in all sorts of areas of life.
One of those areas is pastoring. I am not sure I know exactly what the
future holds for me, Becky and our family, but in chance that God would
move us into a senior pastor role somewhere, I am always looking and
thinking about what would be the core values of my church and ministry.

Recently I have been doing some reading and from that reading I
think that at least four core values I want to have are community,
depth, responsibility and connection. Community in that I want people
to connect in meaningful relationships. Depth in that I don't just want
to "do church" but tackle tough real life issues and not settle for
Sunday School answers. Responsibility in that I want my church to be
concerned for the needs of others in our community and in our world.
And finally Connection, I want people to be connected in mentoring
roles, for people to have someone who will walk beside them and teach
them because they have gone through something similar themselves. I am
sure there will probably be a dozen more core values, but these are
four that I see as non-negotiable. 1

1. Stetzer, Ed. Lost and Found page 67-68.

Idols

We do it all the time. Almost every day our attention falls off of God
and goes to other things. For some people their attention gets focused
on a relationship. For others, they find themselves spying out a newer
and better job, a bigger house, a nicer car. It doesn't much matter what it
is, the point is that we all let our attention veer from God time to
time.

I think the Israelites in the old testament get a bum rap….or maybe more precise criticized by people who should take a look in the mirror themselves.
We tend to look at them and say, "how could you guys be so stupid. How
could you on one day see God do these amazing miracles to bring you out
of slavery in Eygpt, and the next day be complaining that God has
abandoned you." Perhaps the greatest moment where we look down on the
Israelites is when Moses goes up on the mountain and the Israelites,
with Aaron's help, build I giant golden calf…an idol. It is at that
moment that we say, "how could you guys put anything between you and
God, how could you let your attention fall on something else. You know that he parted the Red Sea for you, you know that he has
been providing food and water for you in the dessert, how could you
ever build an idol and put it in the place of God in your life?"

Here
is the reality though….we do the same thing every day. No, most of us
our not running off and melting down our gold necklaces and earrings to
make an idol, but almost every day we let our attention fall of our God
and on to other things. We let God slip down to a number 2 or 3
priority in our life. We let important things like family, our jobs,
our friends, become not just important things, but the most important
thing.

The truth is we are not much different from the Israelities at all.  Our attention focuses on an idol, that thing we put between us and God.