Great Reading for Children’s Pastors

As a children’s pastor I am always looking for new insights and ideas.  Three magazines that were recommended to me that I look to are…

K! – This magazine by KidzMatter has lots of great ideas and helpful articles.  They describe their magazine this way, “K! Magazine is a publication addressing the needs of those who minister to kids in the church.  It contains specialized articles and features on everything from leadership to using trends in our world to help children’s ministers make a deep ETERNAL IMPACT!”  You can visit their site and subscribe by going to http://www.kidzmatter.com.  The cost for a subscription is $20 per year.

Children’s Ministry Magazine – This publication has all sorts of resources ideas, volunteer training tips, and much more.  They describe their magazine by sharing, “Children’s Ministry Magazine is packed with practical, authentic ministry ideas to help you change lives forever.  You’ll get sound advice and encouragement from today’s children’s ministry experts, plus hundreds of ideas to create a program that’ll have kids begging to come back!”  You can find out more by going to http://www.childrensministry.com/magazine/.  The cost is $30 per year, but if you’re nice they’ll give you a free copy to preview.

Finally, you should get a magazine that kids read, so you can get some insight into what is important to them.  Nickelodeon magazine used to be the publication of choice, but it went out of print this past year.  Currently I am looking for an alternative, but haven’t come up with any great ones yet.  Any suggestions?

What other magazines are good for children’s pastors to read?

Connecting to New Ideas

I had the chance to meet with some Pastor’s from around my district yesterday to discuss Christian Education, and I have to admit the guys I met with were a pretty sharp crew.  Our discussion revolved around the real needs of churches throughout Southern New England, and what the district can do to help.  One of the most common requests was that pastors needed someone to connect them with leads on quality resources.  Whether it be for kid’s church, youth ministry, or just church in general, pastors and churches are looking for someone to point them in the direction of good resources.

In that vein, I am going to start posting more often on resources I feel are helpful.   Hopefully, some of those at the meeting, along with a few others, will find my posts helpful.  I know that a lot of what I will be doing is passing on other peoples ideas, rather than creating my own stuff, but I hope that I can be a filter for good ideas that others can take advantage of.

I’m sure that there are plenty of resources I’ll miss because I am not aware of them myself, so if you are aware of any, feel free to shoot me an email or post something in the comments.

God Believes in You More Than You Believe in Yourself

God believes in you more than you believe in yourself. When God asked Moses to led Israel out of captivity, Moses responded he didn’t believe the people would think God had sent him.  God then asked Moses what was in his hand.  Moses replied that he had an ordinary staff.  God took that staff and turned it into a sign for all of Israel to see.  God turned it into something extraordinary.

Sometimes when we look at our lives we only see ordinary…an ordinary staff in our hands.  We only see mediocre abilities, a list of faults, and certainly nothing extraordinary.  We look at ourselves and wonder how God could ever use someone like us to do anything special.

God, however, looks at us and sees nothing but potential. He sees something that he can take and make astonishing.

Jesus took ordinary fishermen, told them to follow him, and made them his disciples.  He took ordinary men and made them world changers.

Jesus offers us a chance to follow him as well. He wants to take our ordinary lives and do something extraordinary through us.  The question is will we follow him. Will we let him take our ordinary lives and make them extraordinary.

We may not believe that we can do anything special, but God believes in us more than we believe in ourselves.  He can take an ordinary staff and make it extraordinary, and he can take our lives and use them to do something astounding.

I Have A Confession….

I have a confession.  Although I have lived in New England for over 7 years now, I still do not like the Patriots. I know I run the risk of losing the confidence & respect of people from my church and community, but I just feel like I need to come clean.  Most weeks I find myself rooting for whoever it playing the Patriots, it doesn’t matter who it is.  I admit, my dislike of the Patriots is irrational.  I can’t really name anything in particular I don’t like about them…I just have a “bad feeling” every time I watch them play that makes me want to root for the other team.

Ironically, having grown up in St. Louis and going to several games with my parents, I still find myself following the Rams even though they are currently tied for worst record in the NFL (1-10).  Call me loyal I guess.

Anyway, tonight is Monday night, Patriots vs. Saints and I am saying go New Orleans!

Holiday Blessings

Two of my favorite outreaches we do as a church are our Thanksgiving Outreach and Angel Tree. Each year at Thanksgiving people from Calvary donate a bag of groceries filled with everything anyone would need to prepare a Thanksgiving meal.  The church takes that bag, puts a turkey with it, and gives one to every family that has been through our benevolence room in the past year, that we have helped out financially, or that we know is just in need of some help this holiday season.  One of the highlights of my year is the Saturday before Thanksgiving when we deliver those bags and turkeys to people’s homes.

At Christmas each year, we also support Angel Tree. People from the church come and take a paper angel, which has a gift request from a child on it, and then go out and purchase that Christmas gift for that kid.  The cool part about Angel Tree is that every child who gets a gift has at least one parent who is incarcerated, so every gift purchased goes towards giving a child a Christmas they simply would not have without the generosity of others.

I am sure there are lots of other outreaches that other churches do throughout the holidays, but these are two of my favorites we do each year. Two great ways to bless and reach out to families around the holidays.

You Version Live

I had been wanting to try You Version Live out for several weeks now, and I finally had my chance this past Sunday.  It was neat to have people following along with my sermon points, and scriptures on their cell phones. Not everyone was able to participate as you have to have a compatible phone, but for those who were able, everyone I spoke with afterwards said they appreciated the added feature.

Not saying we will use it for all of our services at Calvary, but I am sure it something I will include with many of my sermons.  Check it out for yourself.  http://www.youversion.com/live/all.  If you click on “groups” and search for “Calvary Christian Church”, you can join and follow our group.

Lessons I Will Keep With Me

I am truly appreciative of my time at Calvary.  I am learning a lot of great lessons that I will take with me wherever I go in ministry (Don’t worry.  I have no plans to go anywhere else anytime soon).  The top 2 lessons I have learned…

#1 – How to support missions. Calvary does a job second to none when it comes to supporting missions.  Missions videos every month.  Guest missionary speakers throughout the year.  The entire month of October dedicated to missions, with missionary speakers every Sunday morning and evening.  Missions banquet, with missionary speakers.  Missionaries in home care groups, and youth group.  And so much more.  The result, this year over $500,000 in missionary faith promises. A great model to learn from.

#2 – The second lesson I am learning is how to care for people….or what Calvary calls “The Personal Touch.” Calvary cares for people in so many different ways.  Visiting someone from the church who is in the hospital, every day they are in the hospital.  Birthday cards to everyone on their birthday, and a lot of times a phone call as well.  Follow up with every visitor by one of the pastors.  Being mindful of what is going on in people’s lives and remembering to follow up with them about it.  These are just a few of the dozens of ways that Calvary does a good job of just letting people know that they are valued, that they are cared for, and that they are part of family.

I am sure that there are many other lessons that I will learn in my time at Calvary, but these are certainly the top two.

Eat That Frog! – A Book Review

I actually finished reading Eat That Frog! a while back, but am just getting around to posting some thoughts.  As someone who often feels there is more to to than I can possibly get done I thought I would pick up this book on time management, as it came recommended by a friend.  Their recommendation was a good one, as the book did not disappoint.  I would recommend getting this book.  It will help you manage your time better.  Promise.  Here are few highlights from the book.

The first rule of frog eating is this: If you have to eat
two frogs, eat the ugliest one first.
This is another way of saying that if you have two important tasks
before you, start with the biggest, hardest, and most important task first (2).

The second rule of frog eating is this: If you have to eat a
frog at all, it doesn’t pay to sit and look at it for very long. The key to reaching high levels of
performance and productivity is to develop the lifelong habit of tackling your
major task first thing each morning (3).

“Failure to execute” is one of the biggest problems in
organizations today. Many people confuse
activity with accomplishment. The talk
continually, hold endless meetings, and make wonderful plans, but the final
analysis, not one does the job and get the results required” (3-4).

There is one quality that one must possess to win, and that
is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants and a burning
desire to achieve it. Quoting Napoleon
Hill on page 9.

Here is a great rule for success: Think on paper. Only about 3 percent of adults have clear,
written goals. These people accomplish
five and ten times as much as people of equal of better education and ability
but who, for whatever reason, have never taken the time to write out exactly
what they want (10).

One of the very worst uses of time is to do something very
well that need not be done at all (10).

Before you begin scrambling up the ladder of success, make
sure that it is leaning against the right building.” Quoting Stephen Covey on page 10.

Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you
can do something about it now. Quoting
Alan Lakein on page 14.

The good news is that every minute spent planning saves as
many as ten minutes in execution. It
takes only about 10 to 12 minutes for you to plan out your day, but this small
investment of time will save you up to two hours (100 to 120 minutes) in wasted
time and diffused effort throughout the day (15).

We always have time enough, if we will but use it aright. Quoting Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe on page
20.

Rule: Resist the temptation to clear up small things first
(22).

Rule: Long-term thinking improves short-term decision making
(26).

The law of Forced Efficiency says that “There is never
enough time to do everything, but there is always enough time to do the most
important thing” (28).

Rule: There will never be enough time to do everything you
have to do.

Rule: You can get your time and your life under control only
to the degree to which you discontinue lower-value activities (34).

“Why am I on the payroll?”
This is one of the most important questions you can ever ask and answer,
over and over again, throughout your career (41).

Rule: You weakest key results area sets the height at which
you can use all your other skills and abilities (44).

What one skill, if I developed and did it in an excellent
fashion, would have the greatest positive impact on my career? (45).

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. Quoting Theodore Roosevelt on page 47.

You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take. Quoting Wayne Getzky on page 58.

Persons with comparatively moderate powers will accomplish
much, if they apply themselves wholly and indefatigably to on thing at a
time. Quoting Samuel Smiles on page 60.

There is an old saying that “by the yard it’s hard; but inch
by inch, anything’s a cinch!” (60).

A journey of a thousand leagues begins with a single
step. Quoting Lao-tzu on page 60.

The only certain means of success is to render more and better
service than is expected of you, no matter what your task may be. Quoting Og Madino on page 63.

Anytime you stop striving to get better, you’re bound to get
worse. Quoting Pat Riley on page 63.

Rule: Continuous
learning is the minimum requirement for success in any field (64).

Concentrate all your thoughts on the task at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought into
a focus. Quoting Alexander Graham Bell
on page 70.

Only about 2 percent of the people can work entirely without
supervision. We call these people
“leaders.” This is the kind of person
you are meant to be and that you can be, if you decide to be (76).

Imagine each day that you have just received an emergency
message and that you will have to leave town tomorrow for a month. If you had to leave town for a month, what
you make absolutely sure that you got done before you left? (77).

The fact is that your productivity begins to decline after
eight or nine hours of work. For this
reason, working long hours into the night, although sometimes necessary means
that you are usually producing less and less in more and more time (80-81).

There is more to life than just increasing its speed. Quoting Gandhi on page 89.

The beginning of a habit is like an invisible thread, but
every time we repeat the act we strengthen the strand, add to it another
filament, until it becomes a great cable and binds us irrevocably, thought and
act. Quoting Orison Swett Marden on page
97.

It has been estimated that the tendency to start and stop a
task – to pick it up, put it down, and come back to it- can increase the time
necessary to complete the task by as much as 500 percent (110).

Interns – Every Church Should Have Them

I just finished the semester evaluations for all our Zion Bible College interns.  It is hard to believe yet another school term is coming to a close.  I love the time that I get to spend with each of our students throughout the year.  Weekends without them at the church are simply not the same.

Personally I think every church should have interns.  Maybe it is from a Bible college like Zion.  Or, maybe it is something unofficial like a high-school student who is considering going into ministry, or an adult from the church who is considering a mid-life change of direction.  Maybe it is just someone who wants to give more time serving.  Whether it is an official internship, or not, I think every church should have someone they are mentoring.

For the mentoree it gives them the chance for someone to show them the ropes, and let them get their feet wet.  It gives them the chance to learn from someone else’s successes and failures, so they don’t have to learn the hard way themselves.  It gives them a realistic picture of pastoral ministry, and what life around the church is really like.

For the church it makes you think through what you truly believe about ministry, and summarize those lessons into teachable moments.  Mentoring gives you the chance to work with students who add to the church’s ministry by bringing their God given talents and passions to the table.  It gives you the chance to “interview” possible staff members over the course of months, and years, rather than over a short weekend.  It gives you the chance to pass on what you believe about pastoral ministry to the next generation.

I think every church should have interns. There are just too many benefits to let the opportunity slip by.

10 Year Anniversary

The other day when I took my truck to get an oil change I realized I missed a very important anniversary a few months ago.  My truck and I have been together for over 10 years now. I bought my truck right before I showed up for classes at Central Bible College.  So, she and I have been through a lot together (yes, my truck is a she.  In fact, Becky named her Lucy a few years back).

In honor of our 10 year anniversary I officially enrolled my truck in the Junky Car Club (www.junkycarclub.com/).  Hoping my truck can hang in there a few more years, so I can save some more money by not having a car loan.